I do agree that using software is a great help (Beer Smith being my choice too, only $21 for two systems)... But, I'm always surprised at how LITTLE people actually know about using honey in beers... I've used it in several brews... Different amounts, different times in the process... Some boiled, some post boil (during the cool down) some after 2 weeks in primary... All have different impacts on the brew... If you put it in with the main DME, you won't get enough flavor from the honey (unless you use something with TONS of flavor, like black strap molasses level) to notice. If you add it during the cool down, you'll get a light hint of flavor (again, depends completely on the honey flavor). If you put it during fermentation (after 2 weeks, or more) then you'll get a bit more flavor. I would use it while still on the yeast cake, so that it gets fermented faster. If you prime with it, you'll get a light hint of the flavor (depends on if you used it during other steps too)... I used a pound of honey in an amber ale and you really couldn't taste it (was added during the boil). The higher ABV% will pretty much eliminate the honey flavor you might have added...
Bottom line, put a pound in with Extra Light DME and you'll get very little body addition to the brew, no honey flavor addition, and you'll get a higher ABV level in the brew. You might mistake the higher ABV for other flavors, first time around...
If you can, brew two of the same kit. In one, add two pounds of extra light DME. In the other add 1# honey and 1# extra light DME... Don't mark which bottle is which and start drinking them... I think you'll be more than just hard pressed to tell which was which...
In this case you DON'T WANT QUALITY HONEY... You want cheap, lightly flavored honey... He just wants to boost ABV, not add flavor... You can get cheap honey, at the grocery store, at 2# for the cost of one pound of DME...