I consider myself a "motorcycle friendly" driver because my dad always had a bike of one kind or another and got clipped by drivers a few times so I'm aware of how vulnerable motorcyclists are on the road. However, it is really hard sometimes to see motorcycles, even when I'm looking for them.
I wonder, why do motorcyclists not wear bright clothing like bicyclists do? That would probably save a lot of lives.
The other day I was driving home from work and I saw a motorcyclist on a low rider, wearing a black helmet, black jeans, and a jungle camo jacket. The lights on his bike were small and hard to distinguish. This guy looked like he was trying to blend into the street. If some cager pulls a left turn in front of him and he has to lay it down, I'm sure he'll be all pissed off because the stupid cager didn't see him (assuming he survives). But he won't give any thought at all to hard he made himself to see.
That's a good point. It's important to be visible. But on the other hand, in the 70's there was a comprehensive safety report that came out on motorcycling. It was named the HURT report after the author (whose last name was Hurt). The report looked at the factors that caused and contributed to motorcycling accidents. As you would expect, people wearing helmets generally had a better survival rate, however there was an interesting side note here. Of all the helmet colors available, the sole color that was over-represented in accidents was white.
White, of course, is the most visible color out there because it reflects so much light (same reason golf balls are white). However, more white helmets were involved in accidents than any other color.
Perhaps it is just flukey data, but there could be a reason behind it. Motorcyclists speak often about "target fixation". It's the idea that if you are looking at something, your muscles will instinctively cause you to head toward that object. It's the reason you see the youtube videos of untrained newbs getting on a bike, starting it up, losing control, traveling 100, 200 feet or more and smacking into a tree or light post. Of all the 360 degrees of travel they had to choose from, they selected the only single one that causes them to hit something. What happened? They freaked out, stared at the tree, and that's exactly where they went. The same thing happens to drivers when they read billboards or gape at an accident- you can actually see their car start to go towards whatever they are looking at.
The fact that you are seen by somebody in a car, in a way, can cause you to be more at risk if they are focusing on you and staring at you while trying to avoid hitting you. So, in that sense, it's not always ideal for you to be stand out. Sure, you want to be seen and noticed, of course. However, there may be a fine line between being tangentially noticed and grabbing someone's attention full force.
People who have driven fancy cars sometimes report the same thing- that kids in Hondas or whatever will tend to swerve into them. They are looking at the car, rather than looking where they are supposed to be going. Bottom line, the safest thing is for people to be aware that you are there, but not to the point that you are drawing particular attention to yourself such that they are inclined to look and watch you.