I have both the cheap plastic lhbs paddle and spoon which both get soft and bend easily when hot.. I also have a stainless spoon which gets pretty hot quickly... Ive been too cheap to spring for a real hardwood paddle but I believe it would be nice for when I mash in and also use my paddle to temporarily lift my hop spider up and dunk it back into the wort.. I also dont feel comfortable leaving the plastic spoon in my kettle as I would with a wooded one (if it didnt float to the top) because it cant be all that stable being that it gets soft at boiling temps.