I would not recommend trying to stop this fermentation.
potassium sorbate will only inhibit further yeast reproduction.
campden (pay extra and get potassium instead of sodium metabisulfite) will generally not stop it. I suppose if you were near the alcohol tolerance of the yeast, very nearly out of nutrients, at a low pH, and nearly out of fermentable sugars that it is possible that the yeast would stop a bit early. I would expect that more with a big mead due to the higher alcohol level and low nutrient level. Unless you added a lot of other sugars, you're likely nowhere near that alcohol tolerance. Inhibition of fermentation from campden is more accurate, but that is really for the start of fermentation. Once this process is rolling, stopping it is more than you can expect campden to accomplish.
I would take a gravity sample and determine what this sweetness level you like correlates to. I would then recommend further patience for the end of fermentation, multiple rackings, and stabilizing with the aforementioned two chemicals, and backsweetening to the previously enjoyed level. With the size of this batch that is going to end up being way easier, and just requires patience.
If you were absolutely determined to try to stop fermentation, you don't want the sulfite and sorbate in there during fermentation. You would need the ability to chill the batch. I'd rack, chill to the low 30's, and rack again after it is clear. Then I'd stabilize. I've done it with success. But with a small fraction of the volume you're talking about...
good luck...
--Michael