Clearly both of you fail to see the point.
To take almost two weeks to ship an order when your own web site says that DELIVERY should be within 1-5 days is flat out unacceptable. Perhaps I could have been a little more understanding had I received an email saying "Hey, XYZ is going on. Sorry for the delay. Your order will be shipped on XYZ."
Unless you contacted them, you were left in the dark. The staff of AHS may be the nicest people in the world, but were talking Customer Service 101 here.
I stand by my original comments and don't think that myself, and the others who have echoed my sentiments, are being unreasonable.