Sorry, i'm kinda late, just saw the post. well, anything that's not an IPA shouldn't be too hoppy. Of course, anything with Hops (or variation) in the name is out of the question as well.
I'm not good at coming up with positive answers, just one's to stay away from, because I'm a hophead myself. I'd maybe go with Anchor Steam, or the Belgian styles. Hefeweizens are usually pleasing to women as well.