I know the feeling Wrenchman. My wife wasn't a big fan either, but I tried to soften the rustic look by adding brushed nickel fixtures, a vessel sink in the bathroom, nice stone tile, etc. She won't admit it, but I think she really is starting to dig it, especially as the finishing touches are coming together.

Let me know if I can help you with ideas as the time comes. As I said in earlier posts, I did the majority of this build myself, but I did not build or mill the bar cabinets, the bar top, or the bathroom vanity. If you like those items, here's a list of places that I got them from:
Log and Panel Bar Cabinetry - The Woodworker's Shopp in Comin's, MI
www.woodworkersshoppe.com
Redwood Slab Bar Top/Countertop - Artisan Burlwood in Berkeley, CA
www.artianburlwood.com
Cedar Log Vanity - A&S Woodworks - Fairgrove, MI
[email protected] - Travis Aeder's email address.
All of the red cedar log trims, mantle, lamps, etc. came from my dad's property and I have a buddy with a Woodmeiser Portable Mill, so he cut and slabbed everything for me. All of the knotty pine came from Church's Lumber in Auburn Hills, MI. Hope this helps. Happy to help out another Michigander! Good luck!
Nice job! I personally like the rustic look, but the swmbo didn't want it in the house. My basement is finished but has no bar. I'll be stealing ideas from you when the time comes.