Jaybird's absence and cancer

[Jaybird]

Best wishes to you and your bride Jaybird. Every time I clean my mash tun, I see that CHEERS you etched on my false bottom there (at least 10 yrs ago) and smile. I wonder how many smiles you've produced with that.

NICE!!! Right! Creating better brewing efficiency 1 smile at a time! Thank you my friend! I needed that comment today!

Cheers
Jay

 

[Tobor_8thMan]

I began reading and felt so sorry for another human being. Then I read "She is in the final weeks of Chemo/Radiation and all her scans right now are void of all cancer! YES!!".

YES indeed!

Cherish each and every day, even if it means we are doing something we'd prefer not to do. At least we're still here.

Recent doctor's visit and the doctor asks me "Are you depressed?" I am a computer software designer so I analyze everything. I think for a few minutes. I guess the doctor is asking due to my age. I reply, "Me? Depressed? Hell no. I'm not really happy about being here, but I'd much rather be here than the alternative."

Not trying to minimize what has already happened, but be positive. Believe it or not a positive attitude helps with many things in life. Find joy and satisfaction in the simple things in life. As I age I realize there are many, many simple things to enjoy. Also, it's helped me to realize it's best, at least for me, to be happy with what one has instead of being sad at what one don't have.

Cherish your wife and cherish both your time on Earth.

Also, I can somewhat relate to things as my Mother's husband died of cancer.

Godspeed fellow brewer. Do keep us posted.

 

[Hoppy2bmerry]

Yea, for kicking cancer‘s ass! I’m sending good thoughts for your wife’s continued recovery and wellness. I commend you for staying by her side and giving her the support she needed. (Not every spouse will do that) Remember to take care of yourself too. It ain’t easy being a caregiver.
I hope you both get to do something special or go somewhere meaningful to celebrate this milestone and your wonderful relationship.

 

[beernutz]

What an uplifting post Jay, thanks for sharing it with us. I have lost many family and friends to cancer so it is awesome to hear of a victory.

Frack cancer.

 

[Cyclman]

Jay, Thank you for sharing. An absolutely inspiring story that we can all aspire to in our lives. I have so much respect and admiration that you were willing to drop literally everything to focus on an incredibly difficult battle. Prayer works, I will pray for you. With incredible medical advances on a yearly basis, winning battle by battle is so important, because who knows what miracle cure might be around the corner. Glad to hear you took that positive and proactive approach.

 

[Jaybird]

I began reading and felt so sorry for another human being. Then I read "She is in the final weeks of Chemo/Radiation and all her scans right now are void of all cancer! YES!!".

YES indeed!

Cherish each and every day, even if it means we are doing something we'd prefer not to do. At least we're still here.

Recent doctor's visit and the doctor asks me "Are you depressed?" I am a computer software designer so I analyze everything. I think for a few minutes. I guess the doctor is asking due to my age. I reply, "Me? Depressed? Hell no. I'm not really happy about being here, but I'd much rather be here than the alternative."

Not trying to minimize what has already happened, but be positive. Believe it or not a positive attitude helps with many things in life. Find joy and satisfaction in the simple things in life. As I age I realize there are many, many simple things to enjoy. Also, it's helped me to realize it's best, at least for me, to be happy with what one has instead of being sad at what one don't have.

Cherish your wife and cherish both your time on Earth.

Also, I can somewhat relate to things as my Mother's husband died of cancer.

Godspeed fellow brewer. Do keep us posted.

Thank you. I will absolutely keep you all posted moving forward.

Cheers
Jay

 

[Jaybird]

Yea, for kicking cancer‘s ass! I’m sending good thoughts for your wife’s continued recovery and wellness. I commend you for staying by her side and giving her the support she needed. (Not every spouse will do that) Remember to take care of yourself too. It ain’t easy being a caregiver.
I hope you both get to do something special or go somewhere meaningful to celebrate this milestone and your wonderful relationship.

I am really trying to also take care of myself. I appreciate you reminding me how important that is. I often find myself neglecting that..

Cheers
Jay

 

[Jaybird]

What an uplifting post Jay, thanks for sharing it with us. I have lost many family and friends to cancer so it is awesome to hear of a victory.

Frack cancer.

Fricka' Fracka' Fire Cracker! Sorry to hear of your loss. I am very grateful for this forum and really for the support you all have given me and this little company over the years.
'VICTORY WILL BE MINE" In my best Stewie voice

 

[Jaybird]

Jay, Thank you for sharing. An absolutely inspiring story that we can all aspire to in our lives. I have so much respect and admiration that you were willing to drop literally everything to focus on an incredibly difficult battle. Prayer works, I will pray for you. With incredible medical advances on a yearly basis, winning battle by battle is so important, because who knows what miracle cure might be around the corner. Glad to hear you took that positive and proactive approach.

I really appreciate you saying this. It does mean a lot to me. It was a hard choice and of course my business and my personal relationships took a hit. I am trying to get my company back on track fully and really the only personal relationship I an concerned with is my lovely bride. I have said this many of times but she is as important to me as the air I breathe. I am very lucky to have her fighting every step!
Cheers
Jay

 

[wepeeler]

Thoughts and prayers!! I wish you both the very best!

My mom just got diagnosed with Stage 4 colon cancer as well. She had surgery to remove it in May, and is now dealing with chemo, and the awful side affects as we speak. You story is both terrifying and hopeful. Thanks for sharing <3

 

[Jaybird]

Thoughts and prayers!! I wish you both the very best!

My mom just got diagnosed with Stage 4 colon cancer as well. She had surgery to remove it in May, and is now dealing with chemo, and the awful side affects as we speak. You story is both terrifying and hopeful. Thanks for sharing <3

Positivity is the only way to get through this. Having people that love you and care for you and keep you on track is vital.
Wishing the best outcome for you and your mom. It is hard to see the people we love the most be in so much pain.

Reach out if you ever need an ear or need some friendly direction.

Cheers
Jay

 

[Bassman2003]

Thanks for sharing. This medium is kind of odd when it comes to personal topics. You kind of need to speak up for yourself when one would never do this in an in-person situation.

Sorry for your situation but am glad your are making the best of it. Thoughts and prayers going your way and best of luck!

 

[Knightshade]

F* Cancer

Lending you and your beautiful bride strength. Keep moving forward and keep it positive!

 

[Jaybird]

Thank you all! I really appreciate it! It's great to back at it. Michelle is over the hump of chemo/radiation 3 weeks left and then it's onto healing, 1 more surgery and start living again!
Thanks for all the great vibes, awesome messages and of course the comments section of your orders have been great! Michelle loves them! I do appreciate the orders and the added love there as well that's for sure.

Cheers
Jay

 

[Bassman2003]

Jaybird, quick question: Does your fab shop do any metal spinning?

 

[Jaybird]

Jaybird, quick question: Does your fab shop do any metal spinning?

No. If you need custom metal spinning done. Maybe contact Toledo metal spinning. Great group of guys they do amazing work..

Jay

 

[Bassman2003]

Thanks!