Alright, well this will probably be the easiest way for you... in a nutshell
Start with one large stock pot (atleast 4 gallon). With a nylon or muslin bag fill with all your grains, pre milled. Bring a seperate pot medium size just under a boil. Fill your primary pot just about half way, maybe a little more. Add your bag of grains when the water is around 165 deg f. Stir the water around and through the bag for a few minutes you want to maintain around 155 degrees. Although anywhere between 145-160 will be fine starting out.
If all of the bag of grains are not submerged add a little water from your side pot, stir around cover wrap with some towels or a blanket and let steep for 60 min around 155. Check every 15 min if it goes below 145 add a little of the water from your side pot (should try to maintain 160-170 in your side pot).
Keep adding more warm water to your side pot if you end up using a lot of it.
After 60 minutes (mashing). Lift and drain out the wort from the bag of grains, Then steep it into the side pot (should be between 165-170) moving the bag around a little bit. Lift and drain out all of the sparged wort. Discard and add the contents from the side pot into your primary.
Bring up to a boil, once a rolling boil is accomplished set your timer for 60 min. AT 60 min, add hops as stated. Than again once the timer gets to 45 (not 45 minutes later) add the EKG.
Retain your side pot and put some water in it set on low. Put the cans of extract in face down. Once you get to 15 minutes left on the timer add the extracts WILL BE HOT use a towel. Will be thick and sticky, add as much you can then swish around some of the hot wort into the cans to break up the rest of the thick syrup if needed.
Add the rest of the adjuncts as stated, malto-dextrine etc. within the last 15 minutes. Follow other directions as stated in the recipe.
After 60 min are up cool the pot in an ice batch of water in the sink. You may add water to cool it down. *Some people don't like this method as it may bring unwanted microbes into your wort. I've never had a problem but you can use bottled water instead.
Once down to 130 degrees add to your primary bucket for fermentation. Then add cold tap water (or bottled water*) to cool it down under 80 degrees and bring up your batch volume to 5 gallons. Pitch your yeast when under 80 degrees move to your fermentation area....
Phew.. these methods aren't considered by some to be the best. But for starting out with basic equipment this will get you some might fine brew.
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