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Talk @omazing1 !
what's the recommendation for a starting boil size?
The process in
How to Brew, 4e makes it easy (as in no software required) to convert most full volume boil recipes to partial boils with late additions. So, like
@CascadesBrewer , I'll recommend getting a copy of the book. Chapter 1 covers the process - so read it with care.
As for starting water volume, you want end up with 2.5 gal in the kettle at the end of the boil. So start with 2.5 gal + the boil off rate for your equipment and boil time. If you boil off 0.5 gal in 60 min, start with 3.0 gal. The video
Boiling Wort Visual Reference should help with a common definition of different boil strengths.
Kettle size: if you have a 5.0 gal kettle, there should be no concerns about doing a partial boil for a 5.0 (or 5.5) gal batch. If you have a 4.0 gal kettle (I do), then space will be a little tight. A lower intensity boil, in combination with a 30 min boil, should allow you to end up with 2.5 gal of wort (aka the partial boil) in the kettle at the end of the boil.
With a 4.0 gal kettle for 5.0 gal partial boil batches, there may be situations where you need to futz with adding water during the boil. Short term, I see it as a PITA process that I would suffer through. Long term, I'd either brew a smaller batch or buy a bigger kettle. FWIW, my typical batch size is in the 2.5 gal to 2.75 gal range (going into the fermenter(s)).