I've moved to extract brewing; 10-15 minute boil with hop additions between 5-15 minutes. No bittering. My brew day now takes an hour. With kids, it is the way to go. The additional cost of DME is made up in propane savings (I tell myself) :)
Even beer at bottling time (3 weeks) isn't great. You're sucking on krausen at 4 days? It must be miserable. You still have to carbonate it and let it sit for 3 weeks (in the bottle).