What was the recipe? Was this an all grain recipe? If so, you can control how fermentable the wort is by the mash temp. usually the grains are mashed between 148-158 degrees F or so. The higher the temp the more complex sugars you'll create and the harder time the yeast will have to break down those complex sugars. The lower the mash is the more fermentable your wort will be thus giving you a drier, thinner beer. A dry beer would be good for an IPA per say while a thicker beer would be good for you brewed; a stout.
Adding lactose would add the thicker, more silky, mouth feel but be careful because if you don't have the IBU's to back it up your beer will be much too sweet. If it were me I'd let the stout age a little bit to mellow out the alcohol and not add anything to it. Brew it again soon and if this an all grain beer try adjusting your mash temp.