I use Grainfather's recipe's creator with Grainfather's equipment, so I'm guessing if they tell me it's ok to have more sparge water than mash water, they're not completely wrong. But I wanted to understand and make sure I wouldn't be screwing things up instead of just guessing.
If you are going to use their recipes, then follow their recipes and the way they tell you to do things. If it worked for them, it should work for you if you do the same.
If there is some process or something that you can't do the same, then you need to know what that affects. In many cases, nothing if you aren't trying to get the exact flavor that recipe is intended to give you.
There are all different ideas on mashing and sparging. Some things work better for different people that use different processes. I'd be fairly certain if you looked at any of us responding here that we all go about mashing and sparging differently. We all get good beer I'm sure. At least mine is!
So if I want a certain volume of beer, it doesn't matter that I have a bit more sparge water than mash water? There will just be a little more water to rinse the remaining grain than to get the fermentables out, but the mash water will still have done the job?
Not if your aren't trying to get the same exact flavor and other profiles you got last time from the same recipe. But you need to consider the evaporation rates of the mash water and sparge water that you use. It's generally preferable to have your wort quantity at the end of boil to be the quantity of beer you are making.
Too much at the end of your boil and you likely won't have the OG that was planned on. You can boil longer to reduce it, but at that point don't expect it to be exactly like any previous beer you made from that recipe and did hit your targets.
Likewise if you come up short. You can just add more sparge water or wort if you have some. Your choice of which might get decided by what your SG currently is. And also whether you make it up during the boil or after.
The sparge water temperature should be around 75° - 79°C (167° - 175°F) right?
What's your recipe say and brew equipment instructions say to do if you are using their recipes? Certain beers going for certain characteristics might call for higher mash out temps/sparge temps, others lower. If you aren't going for a duplicate of something you made before, then it may not be a big deal. But probably I'd err on the lower temp side.
Typically I still mash out and sparge at 170°F. Note that mash out is not mash temps which are much lower. I seen a lot of conversation about mash out/sparge temps not really being necessary. I don't know. I'll try it some after I get more experience.
There are some many different ways to go about brewing a beer. So don't be scared to experiment. But if you are looking for a specific taste/style/ABV, then unless you know what your changes might do, then follow the recipe and their procedures.