What is it that you are trying to do? You would add sulfites and K-meta in tandem if you want to stabilize the wine to back sweeten but you would stabilize the wine after several rackings and not simply in the "secondary" - there would likely be too many active yeast cells for the chemicals to neutralize the yeast after 3 weeks.
If you are simply planning on bottling then there is no need to stabilize the wine because you would have fermented the wine brut dry (that is there would be no fermentables left for the yeast to ferment).
If you are hoping to stop an active fermentation in mid-flight so that you can bottle the wine sweet, then you want to listen to someone other than me. In my opinion, trying to catch a bullet between your teeth is easier than stopping fermentation chemically at home. You COULD pasteurize (ie cook) the wine to kill the yeast but cooked apple wine is cooked apple wine.