thanks everyone, I think I had a lot of problems, I had too much water and left out the excess wort, I was afraid of contamination, I forgot to take a OG. I didn't aggitate long enough before sealing etc. soooo I just bottled it today and said move on. I think the temp will be a major factor in the reading, I forgot to take that into consideration too. the fermenation was ok, not excessive by any means. I tasted it when I bottled it and it tasted OK, like flat beer. the reciepe was a brown ale kit EXT with Special Grains. So I tried to be real careful with the sterilization and decided to bottle, wait 2 weeks and move on. as long as I don't blow up my bottles, I see it as a success either way, it won't be the best but hopefully drinkable. If not, down the drain and try again.
I'm a teacher and tell all my students, you never learn anything if you don't make mistakes.... I made alot, and learned a lot. thanks, I'll let you know how it turns out in 2 weeks.