Whew...as a new brewer I have to say probably my greatest accomplishment as a brewer so far was making it through this whole thread

I've had a few batches of west coast IPAs I've been happy with but have been waiting to tackle an NEIPA. Thanks to everyone in this thread I think I have really good background. I'm not sure my process/equipment is quite up to where I need it to be but I am a big NEIPA fan and the itch to brew one is getting too strong. I just finished another brew this weekend and have one more planned before the NEIPA, but want to start getting things on order to do this in a few weeks. I think I gleaned enough from the thread to put together a good recipe/plan, but thought I would post it here for a double check.
I'm going to shoot for a 6.5 gal batch with only 5-5.5 in the fermenter. Past batches I've got a lot of trub in the fermenter and hoping the bigger batch keeps me from being tempted to try to get every possible ounce out of my kettle.
Grains:
70% 2 Row Pale Malt
13.3% Oat Malt
13.3% Wheat Malt
3.3% Honey Malt
Total grain ~21.3 lbs. Calculator says OG 1.080 and SRM of 6.1.
Hops:
Commercial versions I love strata/I7/citra combos so
1 oz magnum in boil (25.5 IBU)
2 ounces of both strata and Idaho#7 in whirlpool
3 ounces citra, 3 ounces strata and 1.5 ounces of Idaho#7 in dry hop
Water:
Start with RO and target Ca 100, Mg 9, Na 83, Cl 225, SO4 130
I'm going to try a step mash the best I can (not easy with setup)
~146 for 40 min
~159 for 40 min
~170 for 10 min
If that fails I'll probably just shoot for 156-158 for an hour
Yeast - my intent is to follow the post that said mix one package or Verdant and one of NE. One question here there was quite a bit of discussion of under pitching - in that case should I do something like a half pack of each?
I don't have good fermentation temp control yet (next on my list but probably not in time for this one) but read a bit about poor man's methods and going to try to at least do as close to...
Ferment in mid 60s and letting it rise to mid 70s and move to warmer area for end
Soft crash the best I can for 2 days
Dry hop "cooler"
Cold crash the best I can for a day
I am not set up for kegging yet and I'm sure I'm going to be told I'm going to have oxidation problems. I also know that is likely the case, but still need to give it a try. I did read up as much as I can from the few that claim they can bottle this successfully. Planning to bottle direct from fermenter, use tabs to carb, limited headspace, purge headspace and then cap immediately. I've done some heavily hopped WC IPAs that was with success.
Any feedback is welcome and thanks again for all the insights in this thread.