I once heard about a guy who's lawyer was using the " Looney Tunes" defense for murder. His client had watched so many violent cartoons that he didn't have a clear understanding of the finality of death.
I grew up with guns. We hunted, we shot, we killed. I started shooting at a very early age. So did my children. We don't have Nazi flags or hate anyone. We're not preparing for a hypothetical race war or the end of the world. My son and daughter both are pure death on a squirrel. They won't kill anything they aren't willing to eat.
I was picked on in school. It never crossed my mind to take a gun to school for the purpose of killing anyone. Guns were there, but they were for hunting after school. We never lost one kid. We smoked a lot of dope in school. Maybe we were more mellow back then.
Today we have many things we didn't back then. The internet, cell phones, text messaging, etc . all offer a broader spectrum of options for taunting other kids. I guess if you texted" Monkey is an A. hole" enough times around school, I'd start feeling bad about it.
We don't discipline our kids like our parents or grandparents did. We can't blame anyone but ourselves. It's our own fault. What are my kids doing right now ? Who cares? I'm online ! Too many kids in our country have never had a spanking. Too many kids have never been told "No!". Growing up without that aspect of life has left our children ill- prepared for the cruelties of life. They can't deal with any amount of difficulty that might come their way.
I'm not saying that all kids are prone to going into their school and shooting people. I'm not saying that a kid who is picked on and has access to guns is going to do it. I'm saying that the one kid in 1000, or 10,000 who hasn't been prepared for life because Mom and Dad are too busy with life to love him and bring him up properly, who also has access to the right gun, who also has been pushed beyond the point of reason by some other ill- raised child might just do that. With examples like Columbine to follow, it might seem like a good way for him to make a statement. I also feel for the victims, including the shooter's family.
Brewers and winos, I apologize for blogging ( spamming?) on this, but I'm just tired of us all being blind to where we went wrong. Hug your kid! Tear his ass up when he's bad. Praise him when he does well. Tell him no when the answer is no, and spank him if he whines about it. Let your child know you care and love him, and this shooter won't be your kid.
Kinda choked myself up, there,
Loving Father Monkey