I think it is crucial for any measure of consistency and/or balance. But if you don't care about repeating recipes, or about the balance of malt and hops in your beer than I guess it doesn't matter.
If my pre-boil gravity comes out low, I add extract to raise it. Or, I can adjust the hops downwards (or upwards if I missed high) to ensure that I have the same balance I originally intended.
For example if you were brewing a barley wine at 1.090, and it came out at 1.110, then you'd want to add more hops to balance that large difference. Otherwise the beer will be sweeter tasting, or more malty than you intended.
Pre boil gravity is only truly useful if you know your pre-boil volume, otherwise you won't be able to predicted the OG, post-boil. Recipes should give this, in my mind. It speaks to how long and how vigorous your boil - I collect more wort for Pilsners, because I boil off more.