Thanks for all the input. All of my batches have been Belgian style so far. I do partial boils (~2 gals) and then top off with R/O. I aerate the R/O just before pitching by violently shaking 3 gallons in the jug for 2 or 3 minutes. I shake it up more after adding the wort. In this case I did not use a starter because the Wyeast packet was from January and I let if puff up for 24 hours @65-70f before pitching. I see airlock activity within a few hours using this method and a full krausen within 12-24 hours.
I have a hydrometer but I stopped measuring gravity after my first batch came out good. Since I use extract malts and top off to exactly 5 gallons every time, it seemed like it would be just as easy to estimate the OG. (I do recognize that partial boils can leave a significant portion of sugars behind in the kettle cold break, so I got a nylon hop bag and now I can recover almost every bit of wort from the kettle.) Anyway taking the readings also seemed like another chance for contamination, so I just ferment in the primary for 3 weeks and bottle it. I am still in the process of trying different malts, yeasts and hops but once I settle on a few recipes I will take some readings so I know the alcohol content more closely.
I recently studied up on yeast quite a bit and paid close attention to what White Labs and Wyeast have to say about fermentation temps. I decided that my winter ferm temps were colder and swinging more than what is ideal. Now I start by placing the jug in a 65-68f area and then move it to a 70f area after a day or two. I am trying to brew as energy efficient as possible so I avoid active temp control. This out of control Krausen is fermenting in an area that has ~65f air temps.