I haven't done a full kettle souring yet. I had misread advice and did a sour starter, 2L. The starter was great, but dilluted in to a 5.5 gallon batch of BW...it had only a trace of sour, so I had to use 88% lactic acid to up the tart. Tastes great and a little more complexity than when I've used straight lactic to make a BW before (the one time). The half that I aged on peaches for a few weeks is amazing.
Next time I'll sour the whole thing. That said...since I want to reduce the chance of screwing it up, I plan to do a sour starter and if that sours cleanly, I'll pitch that in to the kettle to innoculate. Hopeing to maybe have the time to make an Oud Bruin later this summer for some fall and winter drinking.
The most important thing is the temperature. That and fermenting out. If you use a low attenuating strain of yeast, you'll have a lot more residual sweetness, which is going to "war" with the sour/tartness of the lactic acid. So it'll taste a LOT less sour. IMHO, unless you are using pedio, lacto along with Bret to ferment out almost all of the sugars, beers heavier than about 1.050-1.060 just have too much sweetness to taste really sour (unless you dose with extra lactic on top of whatever lactobacillus will produce sour kettling/mashing). They might have a bit of lingering tart, but you won't get a really sour beer.
Temp is so important on this. Lactobacillus activity is (at a guess) doubled at 120F compared to 100F and roughly doubled again over 80F. So if you can't hold the temp around 120F, it is going to take a LONG time to sour (plus the odds increase of getting unwanted bacterial activity). Other thing to remember is to try to get the PH down near 4 to start with, otherwise the lactobacillus produce enzyemes that destroy head retention/protiens. So you'll want to pre-add either acidulated malt, lactic acid or phosphoric acid to the mash/wort before you pitch the grain. This also helps the production of unwanted bacteria as the low PH is hostile to many of the unwanted strains.