You know, you reminded me of something. I had an interesting experience the other day. I was having some work done at my house recently and as they were finishing up, the contractor was telling me he was 60 years old. I said, "no way, you look much younger and you get around great!" He said, "well I don't smoke and I don't drink."
Then he says, "Do you drink?" I said "Yeah, I actually brew beer." Then he says, "To be honest with you, I'm actually an alcoholic."
How do you respond to that? I was really caught off guard, and a little disappointed in myself for leaving the guy alone with 300 bottles of homebrew for the last 4 hours (they are warm, but still). He told me he'd had some serious issues with alcohol but had been clean for twenty years. We talked about it a bit, he cautioned me to be careful, which bothers me, honestly. But I know he's doing what he feels is important to keep others from falling down the same path, and I appreciate that.
To me, that's what is interesting, that he said, "I'm an alcoholic." Not, "I used to be an alcoholic." To him it's still an issue and something he needs to be aware of.