We are confronted with a fundamental problem here: you're going about this process from the wrong end. A well-behaved beer dispensing system doesn't just miraculously arise from random components, and trying to come up with a CO2 pressure solution given your current mismatched setup isn't going to happen.
Consider the classic method:
Start with your desired dispensing temperature. Then use
our favorite carbonation table, find your temperature on the Y scale, scan across that row to the level of carbonation wanted (hint: 2.5 volumes of CO2 is about middle of the road for ales), then run up that column to find the correct CO2 pressure to use to achieve and maintain that carbonation level indefinitely.
Then use
the only beer line length calculator worth using (comes complete with an education!) to find the length of beer tubing that will balance against the CO2 pressure you determined above.
Or you can short-cut that bit and just use 1 foot of conventional 3/16" beer line per the PSI found in the table.
Use the same tubing and length as determined for both of your kegs (the faucet difference has little effect) so they'll behave the same, and you'll have the start of a reliable dispensing system...
hth!
Cheers!
[edit] Forgot the "carb to style" bit: there's a handy page
here that has an embedded table of beer styles with their respective carbonation levels. Also, if you check the "Kegging" box, the page switches to a temperature vs pressure = carbonation level calculator, which would replace Our Favorite Carbonation Table in the classic process above...