The problem with "rules of thumb" is that every fruit is quite different in composition. You certainly wouldn't add acid to a cranberry wine, but you would need to add a lot more sugar than if you were making apple wine. Likewise, the amount of sulfites required is a strong function of pH. If you are looking for a starting place, you would want to search for recipes using the particular fruit or grape you wish to use.
Tannin is used for mouthfeel and color stabilization in red-fruit wines. Its use depends on the style of wine you plan to make.
The better option is to invest in a basic hydrometer and acid test kit to answer the question of how much sugar or acid is needed. As your winemaking proceeds, you may wish to add a pH meter, digital pocket scale, and a few plastic beakers to your lab set. Making the measurements of your specific must is really the only way to guarantee you know what you are working with and what adjustments are needed.