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Neighbors are Lesbians, no biggie.

One is butch (for the first 6 months they moved in I was convinced it was a dude), the other is mildly attractive and you can tell she was more attractive in her day.

They have 2 girls, 1 is 19ish fresh out of high school (not bad looking, I think her father was latino?) and another girl still in school and not driving.

Being summer the kids friends are over a LOT, the oldest Daughter's friends are all from the inner-city so we have a nice gang of thugs and homie-g's hanging around our townhouse (can you tell I'm thrilled about this?) They hoot and holler well into the night and I've even gone as far as telling them to "take it inside, it's 1am and I'm trying to sleep."

Anyway, the oldest daughter is dating this other girl. This other girl is skinny as a rail, dresses and acts like a boy and has that inner-city "tough, thug" attitude, yelling crap like;

"that's how you do it SON!"
"yeah, n***a what?!"

anyway, what I don't get is, the daughter is clearly attracted to this girl who dresses and acts like a boy, I've seen them making out and grabbing each other (kinda gross and not like in the p0rn). So lemme get this straight, she'd rather make out with a manly girl who is by no means attractive?

I don't get it. I can understand if one attractive female sees another attractive female and is turned on, but I don't get how one can look at another "manly" girl and find that attractive... why not a guy? they are sharing the same looks, except one has a package and the other doesn't.

I'm just dumb, I just don't get why these attractive women go after these manly, butch women when there are guys who look more attractive?

/confusion

not knocking lesbians, just don't get them.
 
A close relative is a lesbian and some of her friends look like men. I think they are attracted to the sensitivity of another woman regardless of looks. I'll have to ask what her opinion is next time I see her. Sorry about the dirtbags keep you up though. I hate rudeness...
 
One word: scissor.

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A close relative is a lesbian and some of her friends look like men. I think they are attracted to the sensitivity of another woman regardless of looks. I'll have to ask what her opinion is next time I see her. Sorry about the dirtbags keep you up though. I hate rudeness...

i don't know, the manly one next to us walks around like she's got this chip on her shoulder, I can't imagine her being sensitive...

but I do get what you mean.
 
That's kind of like asking why any of our wives picked us when there are much more attractive guys out there ..... love pairs odd matches together sometimes, and lesbians are no exception.
 
The potential for this thread really becomming fun would be greatly increased if this had been posted in Fightclub. :D

What I can't quite get around is the notion of Lesbians and strapon's, or dildoes, I mean doesn't that sort of defeat the purpose of becoming one anyway?:confused:
 
What I can't quite get around is the notion of Lesbians and strapon's, or dildoes, I mean doesn't that sort of defeat the purpose of becoming one anyway?:confused:

I suppose if you want to define being a man as SOLELY related to what we're packing below our beer bellies... :rolleyes:

People are attracted to who they're attracted to. Hell with it, life's too short. **** who you want to **** (just do it often and do it well).
 
I have a lot easier time "getting" the lesbians. At least they're attracted to women.

Now...on the dude side of things...no offense to any brewers of that persuasion...but why you'd be attracted to that thing is beyond me.
 
I'm sorry, but I'm LOL here! I don't know many lesbians (or really very many gay people at all) but they sure don't look like they do in the porn movies. Of course, that's true of everyone- most men that I've been um, personally close to, aren't exactly hung like Peter North.

I am always asking you guys, "What's up with the lesbian fantasies? They are not into YOU!" but I know that real life is different than fantasy.

I think the_bird hit the nail on the head- people are attracted to who they are attracted to. Many times I just shake my head, because I sure can't see the attraction!
 
I'm sorry, but I'm LOL here! I don't know many lesbians (or really very many gay people at all) but they sure don't look like they do in the porn movies. Of course, that's true of everyone- most men that I've been um, personally close to, aren't exactly hung like Peter North.

I am always asking you guys, "What's up with the lesbian fantasies? They are not into YOU!" but I know that real life is different than fantasy.

I think the_bird hit the nail on the head- people are attracted to who they are attracted to. Many times I just shake my head, because I sure can't see the attraction!

I agree... I never said that I was against it, just confused me... then again I'm sure people look at me and my wife and wonder, "what does she see in him?" :mhihi:

oh well, TO LESBIANS! :mug:
 
I have a lot easier time "getting" the lesbians. At least they're attracted to women.
Now...on the dude side of things...no offense to any brewers of that persuasion...but why you'd be attracted to that thing is beyond me.

That's my thought. I totally get lesbians, they are attracted to women after all. Women are soft, smell good, are nice, you get the picture. Dudes are smelly and hairy and gassy. Now, that, I do not get at all.

But hell, who cares? Different people like different things. Dowatchalike, just keep it in the bedroom. It sounds like the part that's really bugging you is the loudness and ghetto stuff going on over there. Inconsiderate neighbors can be a real bummer.
 
I'm sorry, but I'm LOL here! I don't know many lesbians (or really very many gay people at all) but they sure don't look like they do in the porn movies. Of course, that's true of everyone- most men that I've been um, personally close to, aren't exactly hung like Peter North.

Uh, who is Peter North?
 
Yoop...I believe that the "thinking" with guys and lesbian fantasies is the thought of perhaps getting to be the "creamy center in the oreo" if you get my drift :D

Having hosted a forum on sex and spirituality on a pornsite for a number years, I've come to find out that a few women see male homosexual porn/fantasy the same way (I can't come up with a proper food analogy on this side of the membership wall) ...not as many as men and lesbian fantasies though...but a surprisingly decent number.
 
I don't think any of us can really answer the question. I do find it odd that in seemingly every lesbian couple I know, there is a definate butch/femme dynamic - but without being a lesbian myself (dammit!), I have no insight to offer on this topic.

You could also ask why some women really go for "ultra-masculine," pumped-up muscle guys, and others like lithe, wimpy little emo boys. My wife likes gangly dorks for some odd reason. You could ask why some gay men like bears and others are into twinks. Some straight guys are into BBW; others prefer "spinners" ;)

I would just ask people to remember that, odds are we've got more than a couple of homosexual members in this forum (who may or may not be "out"). Keep comments respectful.
 
That's my thought. I totally get lesbians, they are attracted to women after all. Women are soft, smell good, are nice, you get the picture. Dudes are smelly and hairy and gassy. Now, that, I do not get at all.

But hell, who cares? Different people like different things. Dowatchalike, just keep it in the bedroom. It sounds like the part that's really bugging you is the loudness and ghetto stuff going on over there. Inconsiderate neighbors can be a real bummer.

well i never said their Lesbianism bothers me, I just said how I don't get it and I mean Lesbians in general.

their kids inner-city-gangster-thug-life friends annoy me.... however that is another topic.

nothing against homosexuals, please don't misconstrue my post by thinking I'm against gays and lesbians.
 
well i never said their Lesbianism bothers me, I just said how I don't get it and I mean Lesbians in general.

their kids inner-city-gangster-thug-life friends annoy me.... however that is another topic.

nothing against homosexuals, please don't misconstrue my post by thinking I'm against gays and lesbians.

Nah, that doesn't at all seem to be what you're saying. It's just that when we start talking about sexuality, some of us lower minded people (me) start thinking about sex.

I'll stop talking about Peter North and other fantasy figures, and let you have your thread back!
 
Whooooa. Backupbackupbackup. More details needed on that one.

I have led an interesting life :D

I've even published erotica, and once, on a bet and, briefly, AND annonamously, posted the kinda of pictures that Yooper has begged/dared guys to post...And based on the comments I recieved, though I'm no Peter North, I guess I'm no schlub either....:ban:

(This post will be deleted in a few minutes so don't DARE quote me on this.):D
 
As a female, I admit I don't get it either (the attraction to a more masculine female). Granted, I'm not gay, so that might explain it. But I certainly find myself staring at particularly impressive specimens of my own sex. Hetero or homosexual be damned... someone with an impressive/hot body is just nice to look at (and I admit to having a greater interest in breasts and their wide varieties since I started dating my boob-obsessed HWMO).

Whatever floats your boat! :mug:
 
the daughter is attractive, a little latino perhaps? but the chick she is with is anything but...

But if this WERE in fightclub, then WE'D supply our own pics. :D

Highlight.....CTL+C.....OFF TO THE MEMORABLE QUOTE THREAD
;)

I got the ultimate quoting today, listen to this week's basic brewing radio...He read my email AND plugged this place :D
 
I am always asking you guys, "What's up with the lesbian fantasies? They are not into YOU!"

This is SOOO simple.

A threesome requires that two of the sexual partners be same-sex. And that can get a little awkward if the same-sex partners are straight. Particularly if they are straight and raised in an environment where same-sex interplay is taboo. Even if it's not that awkward, the balance of "entertainment" for the same-sex partners is a little skewed relative to the third person. Since most guys are straight, the "fun balance" of a F-M-F with two lesbians (actually bi-sexual) works out very nicely and makes for a good fantasy.

Also, if you are watching a heterosexual couple "at work" and you are a straight guy, the whole sweaty, muscular, hairy thing just doesn't offer much to look at. So you are getting a 50% ROI on your viewing time so to speak. But if you replace that guy with another female, the visual ROI promptly doubles.

Perhaps an example would be in order. Pick one - Red and Green or Red and S.O.? That example may not work well for Yoop, but I know how the male population is is going to vote.
 
This thread really needs be in fight club so that we can post appropriately. :rockin:
 
That's my thought. I totally get lesbians, they are attracted to women after all. Women are soft, smell good, are nice, you get the picture. Dudes are smelly and hairy and gassy. Now, that, I do not get at all.

But hell, who cares? Different people like different things. Dowatchalike, just keep it in the bedroom. It sounds like the part that's really bugging you is the loudness and ghetto stuff going on over there. Inconsiderate neighbors can be a real bummer.


I have a lesbian mother and daughter living two doors from me. They defiantely fall into the "smelly, hairy and gassy" group. I know several gay guys and they fall more into the "soft, smell good and nice" group than the lesbians I know.
 
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