I don't know where you guys get extract but its like 5 bucks a pound most places I have seen. My lhbs has basic kits for like 50 bucks. Yeah you can get them online for 30 but you can't forget about the shipping!
I just switched to grain because ultimately I want to make big beer. Try pricing out an imperial IPA in DME. Forget about it.
it all depends on the lhbs, we are in the same state but my lhbs charges 2 bucks a pound for lme. Funny I think the lme prices are better than their grain prices which is why I buy 55# sacks. You can save a lot by reusing yeast, I can get 7-8 generations from one purchase.