Your problem may indeed be sanitation, but don't be so quick to throw One-Step under the bus. Contrary to advice given in this thread it IS a sanitizer. It's not labelled as such due to governmental red tape, but it absolutely is a sanitizer.
That being said, nothing wrong with StarSan (my preferred sanitizer), Iodaphor, or even bleach. I've used them all, and along with One-Step would recommend them all.
If you've got scratches (and not just scuffs), you have basically two options.
1. A long soak in the sanitizer of your choice, then hope for the best.
2. Throw it away, or use it as your sanitizer bucket and get a new fermenter.
I also wouldn't overlook water. Though you've stated that you use filtered, or store bought wate, this probably isn't he culprit. Just be aware that Ph isn't the only factor in water to look out for. There is chlorine, chloromine, and alkalinity. I have very alkaline water here, and until I went with bottled water.... all my beer was very bitter. Not hop bitter, but bitter. When I lived on the East Coast, the tap water made wonderful beer.
Also, as has been stated already, freshness of ingredients can cause problems. Or should I say LACK of freshness. Try to get the freshest possible and store accordingly.
Temp control during early fermentation is critical... already covered though.
Looks like the key elements have been covered. Don't worry about he souring because you aerated at or above 80. There is such a thing as hot side aeration, that causes problems, but it's all but negligible for the home brewer. 80 is not he magic threshold. The cooler the better, but you have quite a bit of wiggle room there. I wouldn't even worry about that.
Good luck.