Three? You've indeed been lucky! I've had many more. Luckily I learned early how to underlet the mash to fix it. The only luck I've ever had is catching the stick during my
vorlauf. I've only ever had one stick in the runoff, and underletting fixed it lickety-split. And that was a 15bbl mash.
If you've had mashes stick with flaked grains, I think you need to look more to technique than additives to fix the technical flaw. A mash that sticks with 20% flaked grains screams "there was a doughing-in/mash-mixing problem," not "flaked grains are Teh Ebul."
It pains me to point it out, but that's what we used to call (when I wore a uniform) "operator headspace". Addressing it with additives is like blaming the hammer when you bash yourself on the thumb. Yeah, you can put on a medieval gauntlet. That'll protect your hand and prevent the pain. But the thing you should
really do is correct the technique of actually hitting the nail.
That's not phrased very diplomatically. Please know I'm not trying to be a jerk. I'm not saying you're a bad brewer or anything. [sigh] I'm more than a little hung over from a local Oktoberfest celebration last night and I'm afraid I'm not communicating very well. So I'm sorry if I'm being a little brash. You see what I'm getting at, though, right?
Bob