Based on the experience of others that have posted similar questions here and elsewhere, Jeff is only checking orders every week or so. He is understandably distracted. If you haven't heard back in a couple of weeks, then I might start to be concerned. It's too bad that things are taking this long, but I hope people can have a bit of patience.
While you are waiting for your software order, you might try checking out StrangeBrew Java 2.0. It is opensource (free) and it works with ProMash recipes. So you can at least use it in the meantime to cruise the net and download and look at lots of the great ProMash recipes out there.
There is a link to the StrangeBrew download in the Software forum.