stickfisher has a great suggested list. but if you have the money and access to a good cold water flow get a plate chiller or a counterflow chiller. I did a couple batches with a copper coil submerged in the BK and it took like 45 minutes to chill. Under 20 minutes with a plate chiller (5 GAL...
maybe I'm missing something in your question, but you're gonna need all of done before you brew so I don't see any significance of build order. I started with a nice BK (best Christmas present ever!) doing extract/partial grain while I worked on my build - ended up taking over 6 months as I...
googled 'electric herms' a while back and got to The Pols thread and said to myself "self - its time to move to all grain and here's my leader!"
started building this weekend and joined today