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ARGH.... SWHMBO and cars

Discussion in 'Drunken Ramblings and Mindless Mumbling' started by westo2, Sep 13, 2012.

 

  1. #1
    westo2

    Well-Known Member  

    Posted Sep 13, 2012
    Love her forever, but man is she tough on cars.....

    Daughter of a cop.... learned how to drive like a cop..... I replace brakes a minimum of every 25,000 miles (somehow - I manage to get well north of 50k on mine).

    She's got a 2 year old car - every panel is either dented or scratched.

    She comes home from the store a few weeks ago - "I went too close to a parking barrier and the bumper is now warped out by the fender." What's a good husband to do except get on his back and replace a whole series of clips.

    Now, I'm 1,500 miles away from home on a 3 week work trip. Get a call today and she's using her "I'm going to play cute to try and not make him mad" tone of voice..... she was trying to go around a garbage truck, and clipped a garbage can with her mirror - smashed, dealer wants $300 to replace it.

    At this point - I've been asking her (nicely!) to slow down, think about the geometry of the car and take her time! So, I get mad..... not yelling mad, just mad..... Remind her that I've been telling her -for years- to take .... her.... time..... She gets mad back - claims it wasn't her fault. I'm sorry, but who was moving in this situation? You, or the garbage can?

    I then tell her to take a look at her car (scratched, dented, looking older than a 2 year old car should look) and look at my car (4 years old, 2 scratches and a dent, all of which she is responsible for). She responds with claiming that her car gets driven more - except, as I point out - my car has 10k more miles on it..... I get hung up on.

    Sigh.... I'm going to just pour a beer - let her steam, and thank a higher power that she and my daughters are healthy and safe. It's the little things to complain about in life - right?
     
  2. #2
    Dan

    Well-Known Member  

    Posted Sep 13, 2012
    Hey better to rant a little here than a full out argument with the wife. I'm sure it is pretty frustrating, I''d be frustrated in that situation.

    Your last paragraph says it all. :mug:
     
  3. #3
    EllisTX

    Well-Known Member

    Posted Sep 13, 2012
    I've been married for 7 years now. Dated my wife for 10 before we got married. It wasn't until recently that I could finally get in a car and let her drive without going nuts. You have to pick your battles. Some will never be won.
     
  4. #4
    dfc

    Well-Known Member  

    Posted Sep 13, 2012
    Buy her cars that are 15 years old and let her beat the hell out of them. Problem solved.
     
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    westo2

    Well-Known Member  

    Posted Sep 14, 2012
    Ahhhhh.... she just called back - put the 1 and 3 year olds on the phone to try and soften me up. Had a nice conversation with my three year old. Told the wife to call me back once they are in bed.
     
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    KayaBrew

    Well-Known Member

    Posted Sep 14, 2012
    At least you're still 1,500 miles away from her!;)
     
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    Revvy

    Post Hoc Ergo Propter Hoc  

    Posted Sep 14, 2012
    SWHMBO?

    She Who Has My Balls Often?
     
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    westo2

    Well-Known Member  

    Posted Sep 14, 2012
    "She Who Has My Bloodpressure On-the-rise"
     
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    Dan

    Well-Known Member  

    Posted Sep 14, 2012
    That isn't necessarily a bad thing. ;)
     
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    Homercidal

    Licensed Sensual Massage Therapist.  

    Posted Sep 14, 2012
    There goes the resale value.
     
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    Ezekielsays

    Well-Known Member

    Posted Sep 14, 2012
    Swmbo has a resale value?
     
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    landshark

    HMFIC  

    Posted Sep 17, 2012
    That would have been a reason not to marry a person right there. If they can't respect their own property the won't respect anything else..

    My wife's a decent driver, just likes to run the gas tank as empty as possible.
     
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    CreamyGoodness

    Well-Known Member

    Posted Sep 17, 2012
    I can see your frustration. My m-i-l is an accident waiting to happen, and my f-i-l somehow manages to stay calm. Its a lot easier to stomach something like that when your sig other just says "yeah, wish I hadn't done that" rather than "its not my fault."
     
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    Evets

    Well-Known Member

    Posted Sep 17, 2012
    "Women Drivers? No Survivors"
     
  15. #15
    ReverseApacheMaster

    Banned

    Posted Sep 17, 2012
    My wife is rough on her car. She drives a civic, which is a fine car for her except it is too low to the ground and the wheels are small. She has a habit of driving over curbs/into curbs and parking over the parking space barrier so when she reverses she pulls part of the fender off. She also seems to aim for pot holes. I have never met somebody who blows out tires, burns the tread off tires and has terrible alignment like her. Since we can't afford to buy her a new car at the moment, I have pleaded with her to let me put her civic on a lift and put larger tires on her car. So far this year we have had to buy a new set of tires to replace the set we bought last year, had the bumper repaired twice and the alignment fixed at least twice.
     
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    dkwolf

    Well-Known Member

    Posted Sep 17, 2012
    Remember the 'Curb feeler' wires you see on some hot rods? It would be pretty simple to wire up something on a spring-loaded trip arm so as the front of the car reached the curb stop, a light came on inside the car saying STOOOOOOP!!!

    Pretty simple DC circuit, really....
     
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    Homercidal

    Licensed Sensual Massage Therapist.  

    Posted Sep 17, 2012
    Luckily tires of that size are relatively cheap and the Civic is a relatively durable vehicle, as far as I can tell by the number of beat-up civics I see driving around on the roads around here.

    Replacing tires and getting alignments is probably cheaper than car payments.
     
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    hopfanatic

    Well-Known Member

    Posted Sep 18, 2012
    I try to abide by the "happy wife, happy life" mantra. At times it is difficult to do, especially when you ask her a thousand times to do something and her answer is "I forgot"...and she wonders why I homebrew. God, I love that woman.
     
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    Zuljin

    I come from the water  

    Posted Sep 18, 2012
    Not so much if she's all scratched and dented.
     
  20. #20
    westo2

    Well-Known Member  

    Posted Sep 20, 2012

    That's a bit of a stretch right there - she's wonderful about caring for most everything and is a great mother, wife and person - just doesn't quite have a complete grasp of the bounds of the shell in which she is piloting.
     
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    CidCitrus

    Well-Known Member

    Posted Sep 20, 2012
    I thought it was common sense that most women can't drive. There are exceptions (my fiance's one of them) but I wouldn't let most of my female friends/family drive me anywhere.
     
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