With a 3 gallon pot, I would probably plan on boiling 2 gallons or less. You need some room, even if you don't get much in the way of foaming. Many people recommend those foam control drops, which sounds like it may work for you. If you have a bigger pot, I'd recommend using it, though. You can easily boil whatever size you want in the turkey fryer.
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