Originally Posted by PeteOz77
Treat her like you would like to be treated if you accidentally banged into someone else's vehicle. Get a quote (or three) , Tell her what it's going to cost to fix and give her 7 days to cough up the money. If she doesn't pay, sick your insurance company on her. If you are not at fault, they will pay to have it fixed and go after her (if she's not inusred) or her insurance company to get their money back.
+1, give her the benefit of a doubt and send her some quotes, if she is a decent person she'll help pay for the damage, if not... release the hounds.