how about a flavored hefe like a Rasberry UFO type style? Most of the girls that drink beer that I know stick to the BMC or lighter beers like a UFO or a Sam Summer type deal, light and fruity
Also Mr Beer (gasp! Mr Beer!?) has a recipe that sounds similar to what you're looking for. I think it is this one..
Carboy: Apfelwein, aged 11 mo
Mr. Beer: (empty)
Planning: Belgian Pale Ale, Hop Harvest Ale