Don't toss it (he says emphatically after a few homebrews). For the love of god, man, let it ferment and see what happens! If not toasting your grains is the problem then you might lack the nice toasted/nutty flavor and a few ˚L of color, but you the beer most certainly is not a "lost cause."
Primary: Stone Vertical Epic 08.08.08
Secondary: Oaked Arrogant Bastard
Conditioning: Dead Guy Ale clone, Double-Dubbel
Drinking: Not for a while