Yeah, racking on top of or adding in after is fine. You don't need to cold crash. Just wait until the gravity is down to where you want it before stabilizing.
I'd just add the fruit in after the stabilizers get things under control. Then rack off the fruit at some later point. Remember, every time you rack, you're losing mead, so try to cut out ones that may be unnecessary.
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