Originally Posted by Yooper
Thank you all! I knew you would understand about the beer!
I miss him so much already. There were some things I forgot to tell him about the last time we talked (on Christmas).
And I keep thinking of those things, and then it hits me that he must already know.
Some of them are very small things, but just things I forgot to mention to him. The idea that I can't call him up and tell him now is nearly unbearable to me.
You will get a chance...when I lost my parents, I had feelings and regret of the same sort....Then one night a few weeks later, I dreamed we were just hanging out and chatting. It was very vivid and refreshing. I hope you can experience the same with the same feelings of comfort. A decade later, I still dream about my parents in the same way once in a while.
They never really leave us, remembering our parents is honoring them for what they gave us.
I am sorry for your loss, and hope you can have positive reflections