Try the free online calculator Beer Calculus at hopville.com. Very handy for formulating recipes. It has a large selection of grains, will calculate IBUs from hops and has style guidelines for recipe formulation.
Beersmith has many more features and is more customizeable, and is only $20 one time.
I can't be arsed to keep up this list of what's in the fermenters, but hey, check out the cool brewery I own!
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