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Old 12-24-2012, 08:09 PM   #51
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Popped in to say I was thinking about you. I'm home all day.....PM me if you need something.

I'm actually doing ok today. Had a little bit of a freakout this morning in bed- had a flashback of getting the call Christmas Eve Morning at about 7:45 from my Sister In Law, that my brother was dying, and to get there as fast as I could. It was like I was reliving the moment...I had to pull myself out of it. Of course I haven't really left the couch all day.


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Old 12-24-2012, 08:47 PM   #52
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I lost someone I loved dearly this time of year too, you are allowed to grieve... do it however you want, it'll be okay. All my love... I, for one, will not judge you.


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Old 12-24-2012, 08:51 PM   #53
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My thoughts And prayers are with you today cheezy!
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Old 12-24-2012, 08:52 PM   #54
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I lost someone I loved dearly this time of year too, you are allowed to grieve... do it however you want, it'll be okay. All my love... I, for one, will not judge you.
Or if you accidentally take it that way, just tell me to "smurf" off. All my love...
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Old 12-25-2012, 12:51 AM   #55
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Popped in to say I was thinking about you. I'm home all day.....PM me if you need something.

I'm actually doing ok today. Had a little bit of a freakout this morning in bed- had a flashback of getting the call Christmas Eve Morning at about 7:45 from my Sister In Law, that my brother was dying, and to get there as fast as I could. It was like I was reliving the moment...I had to pull myself out of it. Of course I haven't really left the couch all day.
Just PM'd you! Sorry, didn't see the post yet. I am OK. Had a moment where I almost lost it, which would have been OK, but I didn't

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Or if you accidentally take it that way, just tell me to "smurf" off. All my love...
Nah, you are smurfing great. Thanks for the thoughts.
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Old 12-25-2012, 07:55 AM   #56
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I remembered this thread from a while back and was thinking about you today CD. Not suprised this thread resurfaced today.

I know life has kicked you in the nutsack these last few years. It will get better even if it doesn't feel that way right now.

You know you always have us to talk to. If your ever want to, PM me.

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Old 12-25-2012, 08:22 AM   #57
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Cheers to someone I never met, who gave birth to someone I never met, yet both seem important to me. Merry Christmas Cheezy.
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Caring about your fellow humans is key to personal happiness.
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Old 12-26-2012, 01:09 AM   #59
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Caring about your fellow humans is key to personal happiness.
So we just got a call at my Sister and Brother in Law's....His best friend for over 30 years, the last of a group of guys that used to go hunting (in reality drinking heavily and shooting beercans) once a year, past away today.

Holidays and death suck.....
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Old 12-26-2012, 01:18 AM   #60
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I cannot add any wisdom to what has been said here. I hope that knowing that others care will help ease your pain.

I have been to entirely to many funerals the last 3 years. For me I just hug my wife and kid and tell them I love them and hope mine is not anytime soon.

My heart goes out and I hope that things get better


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