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Old 06-15-2012, 09:39 PM   #1
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Old 06-15-2012, 09:42 PM   #2
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That sucks man. I would start lawyer shopping.

 
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Old 06-15-2012, 09:44 PM   #3
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Old 06-15-2012, 09:45 PM   #4
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Ouch! I'm very sorry man. I have heard something similar once but that was from a girlfriend so the solution there was simple...

How long were you together before you were married and how long have you been married?
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Old 06-15-2012, 09:48 PM   #5
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Old 06-15-2012, 09:50 PM   #6
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Talk to her- now! Tell you what you told us, that you love her and are shocked to hear her feelings. Ask her to go to counseling with you so she can express whatever it is she needs to express while you listen.

Yeah, I know it sucks. But if you want to save this relationship, you have to work this out and the only way to do it is with professional help.
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Old 06-15-2012, 09:52 PM   #7
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That's hard.

Is your wife open to discuss why she is feeling this way?

Did you do something, or was this completely out of the blue?

 
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Old 06-15-2012, 09:54 PM   #8
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Old 06-15-2012, 09:54 PM   #9
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Can you recall what/when started her down this path of resentment? Were there any big changes in your life once you got married like moving away from friends/family?

Going out on a limb here but is she a stay at home wife/mother?
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Old 06-15-2012, 09:55 PM   #10
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That's hard.

Is your wife open to discuss why she is feeling this way?

Did you do something, or was this completely out of the blue?
No nothing specific. I was caught off guard but I knew she had been upset lately

 
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