I don't recommend heating/boiling the hops before dry hopping. You'll lose the lightest oils in the hops and these are the ones that you are trying to add. If you heated them first, it would be more like adding them to the boil.
I just toss them in, an ounce or so seems to be enough quantity & two weeks plenty of time.
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