So I dont know why its taken this long, but heres the wiring diagram I am going with(thanks to p-j!):
Also I messed around with the control panel a little tonight, trying to figure out how I am going to cram everything in there:
Got the element DPDT switch and indicators, and also the two pump switch mounted:
Mock up of the closed box is next, I plan to put the E-stop and the outlets for the pumps on the top portion of the control panel. The E-stop will probably be on the top, and the outlets on the side. I wanted to put everything on the bottom portion but I just dont think it will all fit.