Without knowing the recipe estimating the FG is impossible, as wines typically finish under 1.000. About 25% of the sugars from the DME will be left over, so the FG will be around 10 points higher than without the DME.
If you wait long enough before bottling and use about 1/2 oz/gal of table sugar, you shouldn't see any bottle bombs.
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