Everything looks like you got it set right. If you got the Love from Dwyer I would gives them a call maybe they can help you trouble shoot or just ask for and exchange.
H2 & H3 either turns the led indicator to on when relay is on or you can have it inverse so its on when relay is off. This won't effect how the relay actually works.
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