Here is a link to the pics in my gallery.
One is the toe touch washer I found for $0.78 that solved my leakage issues.
Another key to the assembly, a food grade lubricant, I use keg lube.
Thread tape helps keep everything sealed up nicely.
Assembled with the tapered side of the washer going toward the bucket with a little keg lube on the bucket side keeps it from leaking.
And the final piece of the puzzle is this angled fitting that threads onto the tap so I don't have to tilt the bucket to get all my brew into the bottles.