If it's within your budget, you can't go wrong with Sabco. They do the work for you. Some brewers use the false bottom, but it's rather expensive, plus didn't work well for me. I just use a bazooka tee in mine. It works well with whole hops but can get stubborn with pellet hops (I use a hop bag for those).
My Dad always told me: "It doesn't cost much more to go first class"...I know this, you wouldn't regret buying from Sabco.
As for a grain mill, I've used a Barley Crusher for years and have no plans to change.