I want to try two chicks at the same time.

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So anyway, I got a flat in big city and the GF live 100km from here. We usually see each other on the weekend. Our relationship is post-passion, which I like, more serene. Yet, I think I'm bored and need "discovery". Don't misunderstand me, she's fine, really. She'll do anything. I'm not complaining, I just need to expand the playing field, you know? I'm bored!

Do consider your relationship in the equation. Lying and cheating: Confirmed not good, people hate being lied to and cheated on. If you don't care about her that much and figure it's fine to screw around behind her back, you will have a ****ty life after you marry her and realize you do NOT want to spend your life with her constantly up your ass. Just giving fair warning.

That said, open or semi-open relationships can be healthy. I've known people who do full-open; but more commonly, some couples actually let each other have an occasional fling, or arrange a three-way.

That last part may be relevant to your interests. Think about this: Some guys are into double-penetration, or are okay with it, and will bring their girlfriend/wife a friend once in a while if she decides she wants to do a 3-way. Similarly, and probably interesting to you, some girls will bring a girl friend along for their man to play with (most often: girl is bi and wants to play around, and is also excited about her man joining in and taking her and her friend).

Have you considered discussing this with your girlfriend? Seriously. It's doable. A word of caution though, if you do go that route you have to be ready to understand and accept the meaning of the word "no." It's one of those things that if she isn't kind of on the fence, thinking about it, or kinda-sorta interested, she is going to look dead at you and tell you it ain't happening, and attempting to negotiate past that will quite literally damage the relationship. On the other hand, it may turn out she's genuinely fine with it as long as she's involved.

Oh, and don't forget that **** flows both ways. If you get to nail her and a cute friend, it doesn't make any sense if she can't get some extra action too.

Non-closed relationship dynamics-- open, swinger, polygamy, polyamory (MULTIPLE. GIRLFRIENDS. THAT YOU SHARE REAL FEELINGS FOR.), etc-- are extremely complex and can only be stable when both parties are genuinely comfortable with it. This means you need strong communication in your relationship; be sensitive to her feelings, and sit down with her if you think something's wrong. It could work for a while and then just not be her thing anymore, and then you need to recognize that something's bothering her and realize it's time to stop and move to something she's more comfortable with.

You are opening yourself to a world of trouble. It's, however, a very rewarding experience for two people to have a relationship that suits them-- whether it's closed monogamy or something a little more open. If it works it works well, and if it fails it fails catastrophically. Good luck.
 
What a welcoming board! Apparently the answer to humor in a drunken forum is banishment. That's just awesome :ban:

Now I know why you're shocked about this two chicks at the same time thing. I should have known I was stepping in the unfvckable club. Sorry, my bad. Would you add me to your drunken friend list now? :) Or do you want me to give you pointers or something? I can help you :D


I know, I know, "please don't remind us there's a life outside hand-solo". Sorry about that. Please proceed.
 
Quaxk was the original poster, and certainly posted in the correct section. I actually also thought he meant a 3some and not having two GFs at the same time or a GF and a **** buddy. "I wanna have two chicks at the same time" means to me having two chicks AT THE SAME TIME, not time period...

And since he hasn't replied since he originally posted he probably forgot he did. If not, there is some good advice that's been posted already.

And i also don't have a friggin clue what abizzbuzz is talking about
 
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Man, wouldn't "Two Chicks At The Same Time" be a great name for a beer? Than you could ask your friends "Hey, wanna try Two Chicks At The Same Time?" Or you could tell your buddies something like "Man, I tried Two Chicks At The Same Time the other night....it was pretty deep and complex but I think I'll try it again maybe next week" :D
 
Man, wouldn't "Two Chicks At The Same Time" be a great name for a beer? Than you could ask your friends "Hey, wanna try Two Chicks At The Same Time?" Or you could tell your buddies something like "Man, I tried Two Chicks At The Same Time the other night....it was pretty deep and complex but I think I'll try it again maybe next week" :D


More like, " so I had another few rounds before the end of the night." :D
 
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Sounds delicious!

But seriously, does your GF know you're expanding the playing field? If so, that's one thing, if not, that can be a world of trouble.

+1 with BigKahuna, it's hard enough with one woman.
 
Man, wouldn't "Two Chicks At The Same Time" be a great name for a beer? Than you could ask your friends "Hey, wanna try Two Chicks At The Same Time?" Or you could tell your buddies something like "Man, I tried Two Chicks At The Same Time the other night....it was pretty deep and complex but I think I'll try it again maybe next week" :D

You know, I think I figured out why no one asked me to try a pint of "Sucking An Old Man's Cock"... :confused:
 
I need to know the stress level of maintaining two relationships at the same time. Is it worth it?


It's not worth it.

Too much stress.

I'm living with my gf after leaving my wife. I was leading a double life until it all came crashing down on me.

Don't do it.

In hindsight I'd have never done it.

I was actually married and having a relationship of some flavor with two other women in the same apartment complex.

It got so complicated I think I've damaged my brain from the stress.

If you feel you need to play the field, leave the girl your with. You think they will be screwed up in the head after they find out your with someone else... your mental health will suffer and possibly physical health.

I think I've become a little more crazy than I used to be.
 
Cheating is cheating, and lying is lying. F*cking around on your significant other is unequivocally wrong, even if she's keeping you sexually repressed.

So, in other words, it's time to be honest with yourself and with her, and have some real words...

+1!

Have you asked her yet if she would be into the idea?
 
Seinfeld said it best:

Seinfeld said:
JERRY: What are you talking about? I'm not gonna do it.

GEORGE: You're not gonna do it? What do you mean, You're not gonna do it?

JERRY: I can't. I'm not an orgy guy.

GEORGE: Are you crazy? This is like discovering Plutonium ... by accident.

JERRY: Don't you know what it means to become an orgy guy? It changes everything. I'd have to dress different. I'd have to act different. I'd have to grow a mustache and get all kinds of robes and lotions and I'd need a new bedspread and new curtains I'd have to get thick carpeting and weirdo lighting. I'd have to get new friends. I'd have to get orgy friends. ... Naw, I'm not ready for it.

GEORGE: If only something like that could happen to me.

JERRY: Oh, shut up you couldn't do it either.

GEORGE: I know.
 
One of my childhood friends is a really good pickup artist (my description). I don't know how he does it (and I don't understand why he want to subject himself to it, but) he has been juggling multiple simultaneous relationships the past several years (probably 50+ girlfriends).

He is insanely smooth with girls and once he told me that the cardinal rule for a good relationship is to make sure they understand what they are getting themselves into. If you don't want an exlusive relationship you must make shure she understands that *before* committing to a relationship.

Once into a relationship it is extremely difficult for a partner to accept what you're contemplating if you havn't been honnest with it from the beginnig.

If your GF had an affair (or multiple) or said she's getting herself a lover, how would you feel about it?

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Don't get upset you judgmental pricks. And don't lie to me. I know some of you did it at some point. Some are probably doing it right now. Yeah, you, mister multiple girlfriends, talk to me :D

So anyway, I got a flat in big city and the GF live 100km from here. We usually see each other on the weekend. Our relationship is post-passion, which I like, more serene. Yet, I think I'm bored and need "discovery". Don't misunderstand me, she's fine, really. She'll do anything. I'm not complaining, I just need to expand the playing field, you know? I'm bored!

And before you circle jerk bastards advise me: I don't like porn, especially modern porn, those bald chicks... that stuff make me soft! Beside, I can shine the stick anytime, and I do, but those are two different things.

I need to know the stress level of maintaining two relationships at the same time. Is it worth it?

More women = less money & less sleep.
 

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