I used to live in Smyrna and work in Middletown! Sorry I missed you while I was there! There is a huge homebrewing community there because of Sam Calagione and Dog Fish Head. Have you checked out the HBS in New Castle? They might be able to hook you up with one of the numerous clubs that are down there
I live kind of close to you in Magnolia, DE. There are a number of HB clubs in your area. First State Brewers are up your way and that is a really well run club.