Here's how I solved my stir bar woes - copy of a couple of entries I posted on the Aussie site:
After building a stir plate much like all the others you read about on these forums, getting the bloody stir bar to mate with the magnet and stay on was a PITA.
Tips from what I learnt the hard way, in the spirit of sharing:
Make sure you can start your fan with the stir bar in place from a standing start. Changing the fan worked for me.
Get an Oval shaped stir bar. After spending hours with cylindrical bars of different sizes, with and without rings, the oval one worked right away !and stayed on!. It seems quieter too. Probably more significant if your flask has a slightly convex bottom. More expensive by a few bucks.
There you go.
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The thing is to make the stir bar equal or slightly less than than the length of the magnet. I use one magnet on top of the fan. Not sure how you would go with two magnets - but suspect it might be even more stable, and a larger bar would sit within them. Mine is a 30 mm length bar, I think about 16mm at widest point.
I don't think I will need more than one bar. The speed control would allow you to adjust for diff size starters.
I suggest you get a 5 litre erlenmyer. This would allow you the flexibility to make larger starters for high gravity brews and allow some head space. Mine stirs 4 litres nicely. You don't have to pull 10 gees, you just have to keep the yeast moving in suspension.
One a recent Sunday Session podcast on the Brewing Network, the White Labs guy was on, and mentioned that a 1 litre starter with 1 vial/smack pack will only take your pitch numbers up 125% (hardly worth it), whereas a 4 litre starter would be 280%, and that for a regular gravity brew you would do a 2 ltire starter normally.
Also, try and get a flask with as flat a bottom as possible - choose amongst the batch. Not a huge deal, as mine is significantly convex, and i just spin the bar a little off centre.
Do you need more than one? Well, my funnel traps the Oval bar in the neck, because it is so wide, when I pitch from the flask to the fermenter.
If you couldn't recover it when doing so, and you wanted to do a brew before the fermenter is free again, then yes, you would need more than one.