I'll try to post a picture later today. I don't see anything moving around, or maybe I am not looking hard enough. When I run my finger across the brown dot they smear the brown and is sticky. But with the webs I ahve seen I thought spider mite from the get go.
i have had quite a hard time with spider mites. words cannot even describe my hatred for them. i pick off all leaves that are affected by them, put them in a pile and burn them. I think spray with insecticidal soap. I also try to spray them with water a couple times a day as they do not like wet environments. do not use a pesticide such as seven or eight. Beetles were eating my leaves and i sprayed eight on them, immediately afterwards the mites invaded the plants.
Or her. the nymph probably came with her sisters and they will lay eggs soon and then there will be larvae and the process will start over again. Where the food is the predators will come to to feed. Welcome them!
If the pirate bug bit you would definately want to kill it because it hurts and raises welts.
Not all bugs are bad-- embrace the ugly. They have a carnivorous job to do.
Oh and google lacewing larvea-- they are so useful and ugly little biting dragon creatures but you want them!
Really you do!