Here's the stuff I used to solder. I paid just over $40 total for both. After practicing twice on the scrap stainless I had, I was ready to try it on my boil kettle. Turned out great.
Here's everything I used from drilling the holes to finishing the solder. The only thing not pictured is 40 grit black sand paper.
Here's how I held the kettle to keep the dimple as level as possible to the solder wouldn't want to wander while molten.
I dimpled the coupling from the outside in. Used one wrap of solder around the OD of the coupling, heating for about 30 seconds from the INSIDE of the keg, then let cool for 15 minutes before cleaning with the same flux.
I also plan on re-applying Barkeepers Friend to everything before I use this kettle again.